Last Updated on August 17, 2020 by Shane Corbitt
To share or not to share? While most couples share everything with each other, there’s always a percentage of thoughts and feelings that aren’t fully expressed. That’s natural – you’re the only person living in your mind, so you can’t possibly key your loved one in on every passing thought.
That’s why it’s helpful to know your boundaries. You should know how much information you’d like to share with each other, and in order to decide that, you should know why it’s so important for couples to share their feelings with each other. Here are six reasons why.
Prevent Fights
When you’re on the same page, you’re less likely to fight. You realize you’re on the same team, and rather than working against each other, you’re working together toward a common goal. Strong communication goes hand in hand with harmony.
Put Yourself in Each Other’s Shoes
In order to get an idea of what’s going on in your partner’s head, you’ll need to open the doors of communication. It helps to know why your significant other is acting a certain way, so this is a great way to strengthen your communication.
Bond in a Unique Way
Of course, as a couple, you’re definitely bonded closely. But communication takes it to the next level.
Mix it Up
When you’re in a relationship for a while, you’re used to the usual discussions. Questions like “How was work?” or “Don’t you love this weather?” become the norm, and the next thing you know, you’ve fallen into the trap of surface-level conversations. Delving deeper into feelings and emotions gives you a chance to connect on another level.
Ward Off Potential Resentment
Hostility builds up when you don’t communicate properly. One second you’re having a mild disagreement, and the next thing you know, you’re resenting each other for never taking the time to understand each other’s sides. By communicating openly and honestly, you’re geared up to avoid that resentment.
Boost Feelings of Intimacy
What screams intimacy more than a good ole chat about your feelings? Couples who share their feelings with each other are more likely to experience boosted intimacy.
When all is said and done, one thing remains the same here. A relationship should be built on trust, honesty, and open communication. What are you waiting for? Give it a try and open up to your significant other!
